Reviews from guests 2019 – 2020

by Meeting in person

I’ve not encountered a better party venue in my 10 years of swinging. I’m girding my loins as I had the privilege of having sex with Sir Richard of Radlett himself. Returning to a Manor-Born as an unashamed HOT-wife is such thrilling anticipation & know I won’t be disappointed.
1 November 2019
by Meeting in person

We love these relaxed, naughty parties! Excellent food and hosts , probably need a few more recent songs to dance to on their fabulous dancefloor,but that’s just our preference! Attendees know how to have a good time and are respectful.  If you haven’t been you must try them, you won’t be disappointed! Thanks to J&R for providing such a brilliant evening. See you at the next party xx C&D
31 October 2019
Rating: Great
I have visited this venue on a number of occasions. It’s a great place to socialise with its large heated swimming pool, jacuzzi and sauna.  Ample off street parking so good if you travel by car. The only negative for me were the fact that they have no lockable rooms for privacy.

Date: 16 December 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Last visit here was New Year’s Eve last year and had a fantastic time, looking forward to this year’s event – BYOB, great Buffet and hog roast, heated swimming pool, Jacuzzi, Disco and lots of opportunities to play with like-minded couples…Roll on the 31st.

Date: 12 December 2019
Rating: Fun
Nice relaxing and friendly atmosphere. Great way to let your hair down chill out and get in the mood. A place where the night is young into the morning and oh yes food just tops the bill . Music keeps you swaying and some delicious entertainment makes you want to go back for more

Date: 9 December 2019
Rating: OK
Halloween night
A great party a great nite would highly recommend!!
See ya next month!!

Date: 4 November 2019
Rating: Fun
We love these relaxed, naughty parties! Excellent food, attention to detail and lovely hosts $-) We feel they probably need a few more recent songs to dance too on their fabulous dancefloor, but that’s just our preference!
Attendees know how to have a good time and are respectful. If you haven’t been you must try them, you won’t be disappointed! Thanks to J&R for providing such a brilliant evening. See you at the next party xxC&D

Date: 31 October 2019
Rating: OK
Fabulous evening with a twist.
Halloween at its finest, everyone made an effort dressing up to their chosen character. We had a tipple with Janet & Richard (Muscat wine from Calais)
Followed by drinking homemade liqueur/Vodka with 53+ Russians.
As the night unfolded there was plenty of fun to be had by all.
Halloween decorations & fantastic food available.
This was definitely one of the busiest Radlett party’s we have attended..
Was really nice to see regular & new faces. DJ had a good selection of music and kept the dance floor full throughout the night.
Thank you Richard & Janet for another fan fabulous spooktacular party xx

Date: 28 October 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Always the best… see you next month xx

Date: 27 October 2019
Rating: Fun
Went 2 RadlettParties Halloween party good turnout of ppl chatted 2sum really nice russian girl sum amazing costumes loved the holograms had a gr8 nite roll on next party n cnt wait 4 the new yrs eve party.

Date: 27 October 2019
Rating: Fun
Nice evening – a warm up before the big event tonight so quieter then I had hoped .. but genuinely lovely setting and people

Date: 26 October 2019
Rating: Fabulous
We had another great time at Radlett.
My wife enjoyed dressing up as a police officer. She loved the photo session and it helped others to get in the mood.  Yes the place could be busy but the next one is going to be a sexy Halloween party. Can’t wait xx

Date: 2 October 2019
Rating: Fabulous

Went 2 radlettparties on friday and saturday had fun in the pool both nites amazing food both nite amazing ppl both nite has fun chattin 2 sum couples we know,richard n janet r gr8 hosts the heros n villians party was good loads of ppl dressed up the 007 guest was good with his white suit and his guy we had sum gr8 photos taken as well from john n lisa

Date: 29 September 2019
Rating: OK
Had a great party last night lots and lots of friendly faces and the party went off with a bang(s) love coming to Radlett…

Date: 29 September 2019
Rating: Fabulous
I had the pleasure of visiting Radlett in the past and have enjoyed it thoroughly.
The venue is amazing and the hosts friendly and helpful. Need to make time for their BWFC if my schedule allows

Date: 24 September 2019
Rating: Fabulous
We been goin 2 radlettparties since feb this year we always go on a friday na saturday the house is amazing along with the pool n hot tub there’s amazing food thanks 2 Cheryl on a Saturday and amazing food done by Janet on a Friday, Richard and Janet r amazing hosts amazing ppl and very friendly and make u feel very relaxed, we had the pleasure 2b invited 2 a private party on sunday by richard and janet and loved it.  it was a party 4 300 ppl its deffo a place 2 go 2 4 a gr8 party and any1 wanting 2 hire the place 4 private parties it’s well worth doing cant wait till the next party

Date: 26 August 2019
Rating: Fabulous
My wife and I had our first visit to Radlett party.  We both thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.  We loved the social side of this place.  Also having somewhere to dance certainly made a change. Plenty of well-dressed sexy people around us all night!
Highly recommended this place.

Date: 25 August 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Went here for the first time last night. Great venue and friendly hosts. A really relaxed atmosphere making it easy to chat and play. Definitely want to return.

Date: 25 August 2019
Rating: Fun
Went to our first party at Radletts with friends and had a relaxed and enjoyable evening. Looking forward to going to the next party.

Date: 25 August 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Our first visit to Radlett and we loved it . Lovely Atmosphere, very nice crowd , great hosts especially Simba ( the most handsome boy in the house, sorry Richard ) . We will definitely become regulars ! Thank you for a wonderful evening !
Annie & Sam

Date: 28 July 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Visited for the first time at Caribbean Theme Party. All the guests dressed to impress and R & J have a fabulous home . Amazing pole dancing ; my lady partner loved it. The pool was gorgeously warm; we played ourselves there. All the play areas were busy and fun. We meet some lovely people and would highly recommend it to others.

Date: 28 July 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Attended Radlett Carabian party last night the 27th.
Absolutely fabulous fun & sexy.
Lots of new & old faces.
Hot swimming pool & jacuzzi.
Pole dancer & wonderful food.
Many happy returns to the lady of the house.
Thanks to all that was involved that made it a wonderful evening.

Date: 28 July 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Another wonderful Saturday night at RADLETT with a good mix of lovely couples. Not forgetting the gorgeous Janet and Richard fabulous night thx. The club was spotless and looking good and it was great to see everyone Caribbean summer night playing from dress down time through the end of the night. Thanks to everyone we played with and chatted to. See you next time Emmy and Luca xx

Date: 28 July 2019
Rating: Fabulous
Amazing surroundings great house and plenty of areas
to play in. Pool and jacuzzi.  Obviously the owners showed us around and the WIFE has OCD lol.  great hosts .thanks to them and helen

Date: 21 July 2019
Rating: Fabulous
We visited for the first time at the Summer Ball. All the guests dressed to impress and R & J have a fabulous home and we’re both wonderful hosts. The pool was gorgeously warm and the play areas busy and fun. We meet some lovely people and would highly recommend it to other couples.

Date: 8 July 2019

103 Comments on “Reviews from guests 2019 – 2020”

  1. Your parties sound a real fab place to be. I really want to experience such an event. Being single may be a problem for you. I worship women. Their pleasure is top priority, although a good fuck is always very nice.

  2. hi i m a single male and would like attend the party on friday 22th november. can you please advice which is the nearest train station? the party starts at 09.30pm? what is the entrance fee?
    best wishes

  3. Hi I came to one of your party’s and I had a good time I will like to come again so if you can please email me to let me know when the next one will be thank you very much

  4. I was made most welcome and was put at my ease immediately. It was impossible not to have a good time. Excellent value for money – after all, where else could an older single woman go out on her own and be made to feel a million dollars?! X

  5. hi janet its john and for putting cecillias mind at ease.herself and judy loved it.they intend to bring friends next time. x

  6. Sir Richard: The man with the balls.. Great respect.. Hats off..
    Lovely Janet: Super awesome, gorgeous lady with psychic abilities…

    Went for first time as a single male… Super duper time..
    Greatly welcomed, loved and appreciated..
    While my mate was a non stop horse on the bed…I couldn’t stop flirting with the ladies…one after another..xoxo

    Great ambience.. Highly recommended..
    I think UK gov should fund this party.. Its a great social service :-p

    well done guys..

  7. Hey Janet and Richard been so long since I seen the pair of you I really miss coming to your party’s and spending the weekend with you guys hope to be able to make it up to see you guys soon it’s been to long… Debs xxx

  8. Wow what can we say, we had our 1st visit on friday 24th april 2015 , janet is a gorgous lady, and richard great moves on the dance floor, we loved every minute of it and will certainly be back , we would love to stay all weekend in the future , it was well worth the visit and your house is amazing and loved the spread of food you put on see you again soon xx
    Tara and ben
    (Opps ive done it again )

  9. Hazzaar!!!!
    Hi guys, had a great time at the party! Would defiatly recomened you to my friends. Great host and saucy guests ;).

    Yours truly

  10. Not yet been to your establishment although we know at least 3 couples who have (and love it). We like what we read on the description of the place and despite the potential 67 mile journey, we hope to visit before too long

  11. Hi Richard & Janet. Sorry to see the website note about flu! You recently sent us a lovely reply to our last message . . . but when we try to reply to any of your email addresses we get rejection notifications! Get well soon. Tony & Angela xx

  12. A definate yes in our books – I was taken my a friend of my husbands and enjoyed every minute. \lovely company in lovely surrounds – well done to the hosts –

    Sheila xx

  13. Hi Janet, thanks for the invitation to the party, I had amazing time yesterday night! Im looking forward for my next visit! 🙂

  14. Hi iv never been to one of your parties before but I would bet I’ll be invited again. Hope to see you soon

  15. This is a stunning party with great people they are wonderful host all in all lovely people great atmosphere best policy we’ve ever been to and we been to many we cannot wait to go back and see them again and have lots of fun as we did before if you are thinking about going don’t think twice it’s worth every penny Cheeky monkey is 22 on the fab site Phil&Ann xx

  16. Hi guys, I am not sure if you check these mails but have been on your mailing list for a while. My name is Andrew, a young looking 51 yrs so people tell me. I would love to be able to attend one of your parties. I am a semi retired Emergency Nurse Practitioner- which may be of some use. My experience of swinging has been a couple of arranged 4 somes which were fun. I have a ‘thing ‘ for black women and a love and respect for women in general. I took your test and passed! My expectations are realistic I believe and would just like to see if I fitted in. Let me know your thoughts.

  17. Hi Janet and Richard my partner and I have heard about
    You’re parties all good and we are interested although we are in our fifties and a little bit overweight but we very broad mind also first timers but very respectful. Colin

  18. Good day,

    I am inquiring as to whether or not single males are permitted to attend the parties? I will explain I am a 40 year old Canadian male who will be visiting the UK for 3 months starting early August for Business. My wife and I enjoy the lifestyle back home and have a understanding that life is to short to enjoy these type of moments when they arrise. Please email me if I could be included in one of your most certainly amazing evenings. I am polite and well groomed individual that would most certainly bring no issue to your home.

    Thanks for reading,


  19. I would like to attend 1 of your parties with my partner. We have never been to 1 before. We are excited and looking forward to joining in

    1. Hi Dawn. Yes indeed – Halloween here is weekend of 27/28 October. We very much look forward to seeing you both.

  20. Hi my husband and I are coming to London from Vancouver Canada. We are wondering if you will be holding an event on Saturday October 28th. My husband David is 49 and I’m 40. We are both in good shape, attractive, healthy and are new to this. We have watched your documentary you’re in in Netflix.

    Looking forward to hearing back from you.
    Christie and David Johnson

  21. Hi there guys is the cheeky monkeys from Brighton again is there anything going on tonight at your lovely house we have sent you a couple of emails and not heard from you can you tell us whether we left a small blue zip up bag with you last Saturday we did clear up for you as you were not up yet but we could not clean up in the back garden because everything was locked up We just hope it helped a little

  22. Hey, newbie here.. your site is great, and was wanting to find out more about your parties,
    Im a 36yr old guy..a bit shy.. but was curious to know if i needed to be with a partner to attend..

    Thanks in advance

  23. Hi Janet,

    We are an outgoing thirty something couple, and are keen to attend our first swingers event. Although your webpage is helpful and informative, we would very much appreciate a quick chat before attending. Please, if possible, could you drop as a line, and we can have a chat.

    R and K

    1. Hi Rick. You’ve come to the right place for first timers. This is said to be the least judgemental venue with complete racial harmony and free of ageism. If that describes you both then come on down and we will introduce you to amazing people.


  24. Hi. I’m interested in going to one of your parties.
    I have a partner too.
    I found you on Fab.
    Could you pleas forward me some info on how to reserve a couple of invites.
    My mobile 07761925585
    Thank you
    Paul Evans.

  25. Do I need to register with my partner if we want to come as first timers?
    Also how much is entry fee?
    Super excited at the thought….

    1. Thanks for the message. Bring a sleeping bag in case our spare duvets run out. There is not a dedicated dormitory but quiet corners become spare as the party slows down. We look forward to seeing you both on Saturday.


      1. Hi Richard as you know we are coming up about 6 o’clock to give you a hand to set up and we are looking forward very much to seeing you tell your lovely lady not to panic we will helper

        1. Hi Phil. Thanks for that. Remind me – was the two hours personal help Anne was to conduct with me your idea or hers. if yours, I’ve learned not to hold my breath – lol!


          1. Hi Richard it was her idea she knows she had a thing for her for a little while and it’s time to have some fun I think enjoy

          2. Thanks Phil for you and Ann assisting the set up and sorry you lost the buzz. You and us both. Janet and I chatted at length afterwards and think the end of parties is imminent for us. Damages and costs over the years are nudging £1m – some £200k greater than contributions. We could sustain that if we were enjoying them but we are increasingly being treated as sexual lepers in our own home, spending days clearing away the detritus of abandon from people who rarely choose to involve us. I have just had to lend the maintenance fund over £10k for mandatory fire improvements that actually made the venue less safe, so unless you gave your contribution to someone other than Janet or Sheryl, we would appreciate same to sc 110044, ac 00149451. Thanks.

            I first noticed Ann at the last BMFC and confess always to becoming evangelical in bringing white ladies back from the treason of seeing much in black guys. Janet is over them and won’t be bored again. She generalises them as sexually predictable and overly full of themselves. Thus I did make some provocative suggestions to Ann at the BMFC that fell on a palpably disinterested libido. Thus I was sceptical of your forecast of the 2 hour pleasuring. Just in case, Sheryl committed to be on standby for your pleasure if Ann did drag me off. The rest is (or rather isn’t) history!

            Lets hope we all get our buzz back in time. Thanks again,

            Richard and Janet and Sheryl.

      1. Hi Terry/Mary. Want to send a photo and be more specific about a realistic involvement that might suit all parties?

  26. I’m very interested in attending one of your party’s i have long term girlfriend but to be fair i know she most certainly would not come along with me.So what do i have to do as a single guy attending.From reading between the lines Fridays seem to be the single nights
    My number is 07572212184 feel free to call me to have a chat about attending I’m so keen to meet new friends and i have been told your a great easy going couple thank you

    1. Hi Vincent. I have to ask what made you choose that profile name. What efforts have you made to bring your girlfriend with you? The alpha males of the swinging scene have done their work on their partners and look forward to people joining the picnic who have brought along some nice sandwiches. Not to bring any is one thing, but to have some at home that the owner prefers to leave there is another thing – lol! The site is pretty lady-friendly so showing her might do the trick – or is it you that prefers she not be shared while you bite into others’ sandwiches?

      If all of that falls on deaf ears, email us a photo, your age and anything special about you and we will fit you into a party soon. Take care.

    1. Hi Ann and Phil….looking forward to seeing you guys definitely on Sunday for NYE Black Tie Masquarade Ball at Radlett….it’s always fun when you are both around…J&R xx

  27. Hi guys can you tellers it will be okay for us to stay the night as usual because it’s a long drive from Brightreally looking forward to seeing you both says:

    Thank you so much forgetting back to me so quickly we are hoping it’s okay to stay the night as it’s such a long drive from Brighton and we are desperate to see you guys you always throw a great party

    1. Hi Leah and Tim, no you are both welcomed to pay on the door…it opens at 9.00 pm, Black Tie Masquarade, masks are optional, bring a bottle £80 payable on the door, champagne on us at midnight and hot international feast to include hog roast….see you both later….J&R

  28. Hi, we’re a Classy curious couple who would very much appreciate an invitation to one of your parties. We take pride in our appearance and live fairly local to yourselves.
    This will be our first time so very much looking forward to hearing back from you,
    Kind regards,
    L and A

    1. Thanks for your interest. Google us at Radlett parties, pick a party date then come on down. We look forward to welcoming you both.

  29. You will not meet a nicer host and Janet people are ghost this club are really lovely people we travel 90 miles each way to go to this club and love the whole place all the people that come now so friendly and have a great evening

  30. Please can me and my partner attend on 28th April. We are daddysgirl2018 from club Aphrodite site? We would love to meet you and attend

    Looking forward to your response
    Kind regards
    L and R

    1. Coincidence! Just tried to answer you on UK swingers but got blocked by their mean outlook. What busy lives you must lead not to be able to make a party here for three months! We look forward to welcoming you both on April 26th. If you send your email address I will send you the newsletter. Can you stir up that UK swingers community for us? All they want to do is talk!

  31. Well where to start….. our 1st time engaging in anything like this and i must say both myself and my partner thoroughly enjoyed it, nerves (and alcohol) took over at times but we were made to feel very comfortable and welcome, will 100percent be coming again, this time less nerves (and alcohol lol)
    Janet it was an absolute pleasure to have met you and look forward to seeing you hopefully in march and Richard i look forward to.seeing more of you 😉
    Thankyou for an amazing night, and the words “can only get better” spring to mind xx

  32. Hi I’m a 52 yr old woman 😊 but lacking fun ! I would love to come to one of your parties but I would be on my own ? Are single women welcome?
    I will admit I would be nervous as this would be my first time at this sort of event, but hey life is short and I’d like to explore into new things !

  33. Dear sir, any job going on in your house party for 36 years old Asian guy. I have huge hospitality experience in hotel industry.

  34. Had a great evening (Friday 22 June 18) a very friendly bunch ,the host J&R very welcoming and was ever thing I had read by others. And hope to be invited back some time soon .

    1. Hi J/C Thanks for your kind words. Can you write a verification on fabswingers and definitely you are invited back again for another interesting Friday night at Radlett…

  35. I would love to attend with my partner she is 37 I am 45 both very sensible and not big drinkers and definitely no drugs she is a cute Size 12 with a lovely figure I am slightly portly but handsome and clean and very well dressed, We have been together for a year and I work in firefighting she is a senior nurse hope to hear from you we are a very open couple x

    1. Hi Michael, why not come to our weekend parties either Frid 24th August for couples, single females and pre-selected guys or our Saturday 25th August “Back to Skool” night for couples and single ladies only.

  36. I settle down on the sofa with a bag of Maltesers, hot cup of coffee, Al Green playing away in the background and open up my email. That’s how I enjoy the newsletter…..Bliss

  37. what a beautiful home and excellent party the lovely hosts Richard and Janet do every month, we have been going for a year now and have never looked back, so to many more happy times, we look forward to the next couples party. Thankyou R@Jxx

  38. Hiya! Would love to attend one of your parties as a single gent, possibly September. I’m relatively new to the scene, but I have heard so much about Radlett and it’s certainly one I would relish attending. Michael, Croydon.

    1. Hi Michael

      Firstly, many apologies for not picking up your enquiry before now. Hopefully the info below will answer all your questions.

      Single guys at Radlett parties. Thanks for your interest in attending soon. The next one is on 24/1/2020. We find the most comfortable ratio is one single guy per lady or couple so target that. However, noshows are usually gender skewed so the actual ratio can vary from that target. On more than one occasion we had more single ladies than single guys. The reverse is more common. We are much more interested in the parties being enjoyable than door contributions. It is usual to turn down dozens of guys each month to achieve that ratio. However we are not procurers and make no undertakings that noshows won’t skew the ratio. That is beyond our control. One guy once asked for his contribution back because no ladies fancied him. To have done so would be illegal as it would accept our selling access to intimacy which is the offence of ‘living off immoral earnings’. If that could be you please go somewhere else. Loads of bukkake venues will be happy to perform a walletectome on you in return for access to paid prostitutes. This gender balance is tough to achieve if people don’t come when they say they will. So please answer the following questions seriously and not just as an ‘options collector’. We look forward to receiving back your answers if you can share the risk of missing the target ratio with us and can budget the £50 contribution to enormous wear and tear of our £5m home.

      To target the gender ratio we rank applicant guys according to the types the ladies and couples have asked for in the current month and send out invitations according to that ranking as the couples and ladies commit. We understand if some guys have made other plans by then but this is better than accepting dozens of guys before there are ladies and couples to match. So please don’t send irritable texts chasing us for an invitation. Doing it our way reduces the chance of male overload. Because noshows wreck parties those who can prepay online get precedence. Your submission of answers to the appended questionnaire signifies application to join the party and acceptance of these terms of entry:

      The owners use all reasonable endeavours to target a comfortable gender ratio but will be held blameless if noshows cause that target to be missed.

      Guests undertake not to vandalise any part of our home for any reason (yes they have done that).

      Guests shall behave in a manner to be welcomed back and shall accept the hosts remedy for that not happening without question.

      Guys must be prepared to bring their partners here when they next have one. Our home is not a brothel for guys to join with who they consider to be ‘fallen women’.

      Even though you may have already given some of the following please help us by grouping all in your reply and attach a facial photograph.

      Do you accept the above terms of entry?
      been before?
      how long ago?
      In what % of commitments to party do you actually show?
      are you prepared to pay in advance by bank transfer (doubles chance of being invited)?
      country of cultural origin?

      We look forward to hearing back from you.


    1. Hello K

      Many apologies for not responding to your enquiry before now. Xmas/New Year was hectic here!

      Yes, single ladies are most welcome to our parties. We ask for a nominal contribution of £10 per lady, to cover our running costs, wear and tear, depreciation and food, which we think is fair. How many do you envisage bringing?

      There is a Singles event on Friday 24th January 2020, and a Couples Only Event on Saturday 25th January. Please let us know what you wish to attend.

      Looking forward to meeting you!

      Richard & Janet xx

  39. Hi there I know that tonight is couples and single ladies however just thought I’d ask if there’s any chance I could come along this evening. I ve only been to your place once two years ago when I came with another couple. I live in New Zealand and am only here for another week before flying home, I had a wonderful time last time with the pool spa bath and big room upstairs.
    I’d be very grateful if you could extend an in us to me, thanks.

  40. Hi. Couple questions, are you guys youth friendly as I’m 23 years young. I love woman who are older than me and I’m also in LS in Canada. 2nd question is any events on in the near future? If so how many people do you guys get?


    1. Hello Antonio
      We have no age restriction – so long as you are 18+, there is no discrimination here. Our dates for future parties are listed on the website. Are you serious about attending an event in England? It is a long way to fly for a party!
      R & J

  41. Hi,I have just moved to Radlett from Liverpool.Recent widower.Would love to attending when you next have an evening.I am a retired business man and would agree to all your terms.
    Look forward in hearing from you.
    Ray Benson

    1. Hello Ray
      Thanks for the enquiry. I would ask you to read the Singles section of the RP website carefully. In numerical terms, it is much easier to get on the guest list for a Couples Party, so do try to show any potential partner our website and take the plunge together..
      I have put you on the Newsletter list, so look out for this in the next few days, and make sure that it is not designated as Spam…
      R & J

  42. Hello Janet. I have been receiving your email posts for sometime and was wondering about the possibility of attending one of your parties. I am not gagging to have wild sex, but wanted to experience an adult party. I am single just for the record
    Your thoughts please


    1. Chester

      Thanks for your message.

      Please read the website carefully, since it has party dates & the answers to most questions, including yours. If your are genuinely serious about attending a Singles party on a Friday (4th weekend of the month), please call us to book a place on (07986) 288580.

      Please do NOT book a place if you are not totally committed to coming, since your absence will upset the gender balance!

      All the best

      Richard & Janet

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